Some women are lost in the fire…

There is a quote that goes like this: 

“Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are built from it” 

To be honest currently I don’t know which woman that I am, all I know is that I am in the fire. But it has come to my attention that what is so wrong in being lost in the fire? What if you are comfortable in the fire? Isn’t everybody’s destiny different? What works for you will most likely not work for another. 

My understanding of the quote is that through life we all go through shit and it’s how we deal with it that can define us. It’s either we crash and burn or we rise like a phoenix. 

But what I want people to understand is that what ever you do is up to you. You are no less human for wanting to die in a difficult moment. You are no less human for wanting to crash and not having the strength to get up. You have to understand that you do what you feel is best for you. Fuck everyone else and what they say because in the end you are your biggest commitment; and people are always going to talk anyway…